{"id":555,"date":"2017-01-04T15:42:57","date_gmt":"2017-01-04T15:42:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.documentaria.ro\/content\/?p=555"},"modified":"2018-11-22T20:18:38","modified_gmt":"2018-11-22T20:18:38","slug":"8-lacrima-si-buzdugan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.documentaria.ro\/content\/archives\/555","title":{"rendered":"Lacrima \u0219i Buzdugan"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Buzdugan este aproape incontrolabil. A fost internat \u0219i diagnosticat cu epilepsie \u0219i o form\u0103 de schizofrenie. A amenin\u021bat \u00een nenum\u0103rate r\u00e2nduri c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i va ucide mama \u0219i fra\u021bii \u00een timp ce ace\u0219tia dorm. Are 12 ani.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lacrima, mama, are din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd momente de disperare. Buzdugan este cel mai mare dintre cei trei copii. Urmeaz\u0103 cur\u00e2nd al patrulea. A crescut \u00eentr-o familie super s\u0103rac\u0103 \u0219i are 11 fra\u021bi \u0219i surori. Mama ei a murit la 48 de ani, anul trecut. Tat\u0103l este alcoolic \u0219i lucreaz\u0103 la una dintre multele sp\u0103l\u0103torii auto din Ferentari. So\u021bul ei are aceea\u0219i \u00ab\u00a0meserie\u00a0\u00bb. Cei mai mul\u021bi dintre cei care spal\u0103 ma\u0219ini \u00een Ferentari sunt fie dependen\u021bi de droguri, fie v\u00e2nd droguri, fie ambele.<\/span><\/p>\n

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apasa pe imaginea de mai jos\u00a0pentru a deschide galeria de fotografii<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n

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gliseaza pentru mai multe\u00a0fotografii<\/span><\/em><\/h6>\n

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I-am cunoscut prin Dario, fratele ei \u0219i unchiul lui Buzdugan. Dario are 11 ani, st\u0103 la ad\u0103postul de zi \u0219i ne cunoa\u0219tem de 4 ani. Al\u021bi trei fra\u021bi mai mici \u00ee\u0219i petrec \u0219i ei cea mai mare parte a timpului la ad\u0103post. Dario e cumva parte din familia mea \u2013 a petrecut mult timp cu mine. La \u0219coal\u0103 merge foarte bine. Fratele lui mai mare, cu care am \u00eenceput s\u0103 lucrez prima dat\u0103 \u0219i care avea un poten\u021bial senza\u021bional, \u00ee\u0219i t\u00e2r\u0103\u0219te zilele inhal\u00e2nd prenadez\u00a0\u0219i fur\u00e2nd pentru a putea s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i satisfac\u0103 adic\u021bia. Are 14 ani acum.<\/span><\/p>\n

Armando este fratele lui Buzdugan. Ca marea majoritate a copiilor din ghetou, la \u00eenceput p\u0103rea c\u0103 sufer\u0103 de deficit de aten\u021bie. Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva luni, \u00een care a venit regulat la cursurile noastre, este capabil s\u0103 stea 2 ore concentrat \u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 teme. Este un copil bun, care face progrese rapide.<\/span><\/p>\n

Camera \u00een care locuiau p\u00e2n\u0103 acum dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni avea undeva \u00eentre 9 \u0219i 10 metri p\u0103tra\u021bi – mai pu\u021bin de 2 metri p\u0103tra\u021bi pentru fiecare dintre ei. Din cauza bolii lui Buzdugan , mama a trebuit s\u0103 renun\u021be la locul de munc\u0103 pe care \u00eel avea. \u00ce\u0219i petrecea marea majoritate a timpului f\u0103c\u00e2nd curat \u0219i \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 \u00eel p\u0103zeasc\u0103 pe Buzdugan de el \u00eensu\u0219i. Cocioaba \u00een care st\u0103teau era \u00eenconjurat\u0103 de alte cocioabe \u0219i de mult prea mult\u0103 mizerie. Ziua, camera era plin\u0103 de g\u00e2ndaci, \u00een ciuda str\u0103duin\u021bei Lacrimei de a \u021bine locul curat. Inclusiv frigiderul era plin de g\u00e2ndaci. Comparativ cu cocioaba \u00een care tr\u0103ia mama ei, Lacrima avea o situa\u021bie un pic mai bun\u0103. Acum e \u0219i mai bine.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00cencet-\u00eencet \u0219i situa\u021bia lui Buzdugan s-a \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bit, dar are nevoie de medicamente care nu sunt deloc ieftine, de \u00eengrijire \u0219i supraveghere permanent\u0103. La sf\u00e2r\u0219it de s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, Lacrima \u00ee\u0219i ia fra\u021bii de la ad\u0103post \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 le ofere iluzia unei familii, pentru o zi sau dou\u0103. A cam suferit c\u00e2nd Dario i-a spus ca prefer\u0103 sa stea cu mine la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nii.<\/span><\/p>\n

Copiii care fac copii sunt o problema pentru ghetourile din toata lumea. Lacrima, Alina, Mihaela, Denisa sunt c\u00e2teva dintre fetele copii care au copii. Denisa a avut o via\u021b\u0103 de co\u0219mar p\u00e2n\u0103 la 14 ani, moment la care a decis ca va fugi de acas\u0103, \u00eempreun\u0103 cu iubitul ei. Are acum un copil \u0219i tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00een condi\u021bii la fel de nenorocite ca \u0219i \u00eenainte. Are 16 ani.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0218colile din ghetou sunt \u00een general evitate de profesorii buni \u0219i au rezultate mult mai slabe dec\u00e2t media. \u00cen Ferentari, problemele acestea sunt stridente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pentru doi ani la r\u00e2nd, am urm\u0103rit num\u0103rul profesorilor care se schimbau la \u0219coala 136 \u2013 \u0219coala de l\u00e2ng\u0103 ghetoul din Livezilor. \u00cen fiecare an, procentajul a fost peste 80%.<\/strong> Am v\u0103zut mai mul\u021bi profesori catastrofali, care sunt o ru\u0219ine pentru meserie. Am vazut, ce e drept, \u0219i doi-trei foarte buni.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Am fost \u00een multe ghetouri \u00een care o bun\u0103 parte a celor care tr\u0103iesc \u00een ele sunt romi. S\u0103r\u0103cia cumplit\u0103 are efecte devastatoare asupra oamenilor care locuiesc \u00een cocioabe. Nu numai s\u0103n\u0103tatea lor se degradeaz\u0103 rapid, dar \u0219i a\u0219tept\u0103rile de la ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lacrima are a\u0219tept\u0103ri minimale. \u0218i de la ea \u0219i de la copiii ei. Am auzit de multe ori p\u0103rin\u021bi spun\u00e2ndu-mi c\u0103 ei au f\u0103cut c\u00e2teva clase \u0219i nu a\u0219teapt\u0103 nimic senza\u021bional de la odraslele lor. P\u0103rin\u021bi care se a\u0219teapt\u0103 ca la un moment dat s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i viziteze copiii \u00een pu\u0219c\u0103rie, pentru c\u0103 asta a fost \u0219i experien\u021ba lor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prostitu\u021bia, traficul de droguri, infrac\u021bionalitatea ridicat\u0103, violen\u021ba ridicat\u0103<\/strong> (\u00een special cea domestic\u0103) sunt toate probleme majore \u00een zonele afectate de s\u0103r\u0103cie abject\u0103, a\u0219a cum sunt ghetourile.<\/span><\/p>\n

Discu\u021bia romi-s\u0103r\u0103cie abject\u0103 este periculoas\u0103, pentru c\u0103 risc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eent\u0103reasc\u0103 stereotipurile<\/strong> pe care o bun\u0103 majoritate a popula\u021biei o are despre romi, \u00eens\u0103 lipsa unor astfel de discu\u021bii poate avea efecte \u0219i mai proaste. Avem nevoie \u00eens\u0103 de politici publice<\/strong> care s\u0103 aib\u0103 un impact \u00een ghetouri, iar pentru asta este nevoie de a descrie corect ceea ce se \u00eentampl\u0103 acolo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Rasismul \u00eempotriva romilor (anti-\u021big\u0103nismul) r\u0103m\u00e2ne bine \u00eenfipt \u00een mentalul colectiv, nu numai \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, ci \u00een toat\u0103 Europa. Efectele lui sunt devastatoare, mai ales pentru c\u0103 inhib\u0103 o bun\u0103 majoritate a romilor care au reu\u0219it \u00een via\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 sunt romi \u0219i s\u0103 poat\u0103 fi modele pentru copiii din zonele s\u0103race. Studii serioase arat\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eendoial\u0103, c\u0103 \u00een general c\u0103ut\u0103m s\u0103 ne valid\u0103m ideile pe care le avem \u0219i c\u0103 suntem foarte rar dispu\u0219i s\u0103 ne examin\u0103m critic conceptele cu care suntem obi\u0219nui\u021bi<\/strong>. Incapacitatea noastr\u0103, la nivel european, de a elimina rasismul, este evident\u0103 dac\u0103 e s\u0103 lu\u0103m \u00een considerare succesul partidelor \u0219i liderilor extremi\u0219ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

A\u0219tept\u0103rile noastre sunt ca administra\u021biile locale, ONG-urile, guvernele sau organiza\u021biile interguvernamentale s\u0103 func\u021bioneze la standarde maximale \u0219i s\u0103 rezolve toate problemele, \u00een timp ce a\u0219tept\u0103rile fa\u021b\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine sunt minimale. Iat\u0103 re\u021beta perfect\u0103 pentru rezultate catastrofale.<\/span><\/p>\n

La fel \u0219i \u00een cazul a\u0219tept\u0103rilor ca problemele romilor s\u0103 fie rezolvate de romi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pentru moment, Lacrima \u0219i familia ei o duc mai bine dec\u00e2t acum un an. \u00cen Ferentari suntem un grup de 40 \u2013 50 de voluntari, care reu\u0219im s\u0103 ajut\u0103m undeva \u00een jur de 100 de copii (\u0219i familiile lor) s\u0103 aib\u0103 un pic mai multe \u0219anse. Nu este sistemic \u0219i suntem \u00eenc\u0103 un pic dezorganiza\u021bi. Dar reu\u0219im s\u0103 acoperim nevoile imediate. Acte pentru \u00eenscrierea la \u0219coal\u0103, c\u00e2teva locuri de munc\u0103, rechizite, controale medicale, oftalmolog, dentist, urgen\u021be medicale, ajutor la teme, frigidere, ma\u0219ini de sp\u0103lat, aragaze, lucruri necesare pentru nou-n\u0103scu\u021bi, calorifere electrice, m\u00e2ncare – c\u00e2teva dintre lucrurile pe care am reu\u0219it s\u0103 le rezolv\u0103m.<\/span><\/p>\n

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