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FRAGMENTE:
\nLAURA<\/h1>\n

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\u201eAm o coast\u0103 fracturat\u0103 pe partea inimii<\/b>\u201d<\/b><\/h2>\n

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colaj:\u00a0Laura*
\ntext: Andrada L\u0103utaru
\nfotografii: Bogdan Dinc\u0103<\/h6>\n

[\/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space empty_h=”3″][uncode_share layout=”multiple” no_back=”yes” title=”SHARE”][vc_empty_space empty_h=”3″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=”0″ override_padding=”yes” h_padding=”2″ top_padding=”0″ bottom_padding=”5″ overlay_color=”color-xsdn” overlay_alpha=”90″ gutter_size=”3″ shift_y=”0″ row_name=”TEXT”][vc_column column_width_percent=”65″ overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ medium_width=”0″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ z_index=”0″ width=”1\/1″][vc_column_text]\u201e\u00centr-un an jumate am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 fiu femeie, s\u0103 m\u0103 respect ca femeie. \u00cen momentul negru din via\u021ba mea nu m\u0103 mai consideram femeie. Trafican\u021bii te fac s\u0103 te sim\u021bi ca o c\u00e2rp\u0103, s\u0103 te sim\u021bi nefolositoare, s\u0103 te sim\u021bi zero.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Laura a \u00eenceput s\u0103-\u0219i reconstruiasc\u0103 via\u021ba, din interior spre exterior, c\u00e2nd a aflat c\u0103 e gravid\u0103. \u201eSoarta a devenit iar de partea mea.\u201d<\/p>\n

A decis c\u0103 poate face orice, chiar dac\u0103 nu avea nimic. \u00cemplinise 20 de ani \u0219i era traficat\u0103 \u00eentr-o \u021bar\u0103 din Vestul Europei de c\u0103tre un b\u0103rbat de care se \u00eendr\u0103gostise. \u201eM-a luat cu <\/span>loverboy<\/span><\/i>, c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u0219te\u201d. Au urmat b\u0103t\u0103i, oase rupte. A obligat-o s\u0103-\u0219i v\u00e2nd\u0103 corpul.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 c\u00e2\u021biva ani, a reu\u0219it s\u0103 fug\u0103 din <\/span>via\u021ba neagr\u0103<\/span><\/i>. Evadase din traficul de persoane. \u00cenapoi \u00een \u021bar\u0103, a devenit mam\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103 aib\u0103 timp s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eengrijeasc\u0103 r\u0103nile. Dar, cu doi copii \u00een bra\u021be, \u0219i-a dat seama c\u0103 nu poate continua a\u0219a. Voia s\u0103 o ia de la \u00eenceput.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201eO nou\u0103 via\u021b\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 fric\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 teama de a merge pe strad\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 ca \u00een momentul \u00een care s\u0103 ies pe strad\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 uit st\u00e2nga dreapta sau s\u0103 ai senza\u021bia aia c\u0103 cineva e \u00een spatele t\u0103u \u0219i te urm\u0103re\u0219te la orice pas.\u201d<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space empty_h=”2″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row unlock_row_content=”yes” row_height_percent=”100″ back_image=”48081″ back_attachment=”fixed” back_position=”center center” overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ shift_y=”0″ row_name=”TEXT”][vc_column column_width_percent=”25″ position_vertical=”middle” align_horizontal=”align_center” override_padding=”yes” column_padding=”0″ overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ medium_width=”0″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ z_index=”0″ width=”1\/1″][vc_empty_space empty_h=”5″][vc_empty_space empty_h=”5″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=”0″ override_padding=”yes” h_padding=”2″ top_padding=”0″ bottom_padding=”5″ overlay_color=”color-xsdn” overlay_alpha=”90″ gutter_size=”3″ shift_y=”0″ row_name=”TEXT”][vc_column column_width_percent=”65″ overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ medium_width=”0″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ z_index=”0″ width=”1\/1″][vc_empty_space empty_h=”3″][vc_column_text]A\u0219a a intrat \u00eentr-un program pentru supravie\u021buitoarele traficului de persoane, facilitat de Monica Boseff, prin intermediul Funda\u021biei Open Door. Ceea ce la prima vedere e doar o cl\u0103dire, pentru ea e \u201eun col\u021b de rai\u201d. Un loc \u00een care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 d\u0103ruiasc\u0103 suflete\u0219te, nu material. A fost u\u0219a prin care a intrat \u00eentr-o familie.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201eLa un moment dat te treze\u0219ti \u00eentr-un loc \u00een care nu cuno\u0219ti pe nimeni, \u00eentr-un loc unde nici m\u0103car via\u021ba ta nu \u021bi-o mai cuno\u0219ti. Unde ai o a doua \u0219ans\u0103 la propria ta via\u021b\u0103.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

A\u0219a a descoperit \u0219i ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 ai o familie cu adev\u0103rat. Dup\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 \u00een care desp\u0103r\u021birile de oameni au \u00eensemnat o eliberare, simte c\u0103 plecarea de la funda\u021bie, care va marca finalul programului \u0219i p\u0103\u0219irea ei \u00eentr-o via\u021b\u0103 independent\u0103, va fi \u201ecea mai grea desp\u0103r\u021bire. \u00ce\u021bi e foarte greu s\u0103-\u021bi deschizi aripile \u0219i s\u0103 pleci.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201eAcum, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 machiez sau m\u0103 aranjez, oarecum se reflect\u0103 cea de atunci. \u00cenc\u0103 o mai v\u0103d pe cea de atunci, cea care era traficat\u0103, batjocorit\u0103. Lucrurile astea pun foarte mult amprenta.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u0219tie care este amprenta ei, se ghideaz\u0103 dup\u0103 cele ale copiilor. Copil\u0103re\u0219te l\u00e2ng\u0103 cei doi copii ai ei. Pe c\u00e2nd avea ea v\u00e2rste formate dintr-o cifr\u0103, nu exista nici iubirea p\u0103rin\u021bilor, nici joac\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba ei.<\/p>\n

Crescut\u0103 de bunici, la 7 ani a \u00eenceput s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 de cas\u0103. Iar mai t\u00e2rziu, \u201ela 16 ani am avut primul copil, care a decedat, a murit \u00een bra\u021bele mele\u201d. Atunci a pierdut fiin\u021ba cu care \u0219i-a \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit fiecare clip\u0103 pentru 2 luni.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201eDe ziua lui, an dup\u0103 an, simt c\u0103 m\u0103 \u0219terg. C\u0103 se \u0219terge ceva din mine. Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 fug de mine. De ghinionul \u0103la. A fost din ghinion \u00een ghinion p\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 ajung aici.\u201d <\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space empty_h=”2″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=”0″ overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ shift_y=”0″][vc_column width=”1\/1″][vc_single_image media=”48073″ media_lightbox=”yes” media_width_percent=”100″ alignment=”center” lbox_caption=”yes” lbox_connected=”yes”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=”0″ override_padding=”yes” h_padding=”2″ top_padding=”0″ bottom_padding=”5″ overlay_color=”color-xsdn” overlay_alpha=”90″ gutter_size=”3″ shift_y=”0″ row_name=”TEXT”][vc_column column_width_percent=”65″ overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ medium_width=”0″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ z_index=”0″ width=”1\/1″][vc_empty_space empty_h=”3″][vc_column_text]\u201eCe \u021bi-ai dorit tu cel mai mult? Care e visul cel mai n\u0103stru\u0219nic?\u201d, a \u00eentrebat-o Monica Boseff, pre\u0219edinta funda\u021biei unde \u0219i-a ref\u0103cut via\u021ba.<\/span><\/p>\n

Laura \u0219i-a dorit de copil\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 cursuri de cofetar, s\u0103 \u00eencununeze zilele speciale cu cele mai spectaculoase torturi. Anul \u0103sta, chiar \u00een luna zile ei de na\u0219tere, a absolvit un curs de patiser-cofetar. Ghinionul se \u0219terge \u0219i cu visare.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Acum lucreaz\u0103 ca ajutor de buc\u0103tar. \u201eM\u0103 duc cu mare drag. M\u0103 duc cu tragere de inim\u0103, muncesc pentru mine \u0219i copii. S\u0103 ne lu\u0103m c\u0103su\u021ba noastr\u0103, s\u0103 fie a noastr\u0103, s\u0103 nu depindem de nimeni.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Cea mai mare bucurie o tr\u0103ie\u0219te c\u00e2nd se \u00eentoarce seara de la munc\u0103 \u0219i copiii \u00eei sar la g\u00e2t, pe ecoul celui mai frumos cuv\u00e2nt pe care l-a auzit: <\/span>mami, mami.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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\u201eTraficul de persoane pune cea mai mare pat\u0103 pe tine ca persoan\u0103. Ca femeie.\u201d Laura vrea ca pata ei s\u0103 devin\u0103 un viitor mai bun pentru copiii ei. Pentru to\u021bi copiii.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201eMi-ar fi pl\u0103cut s\u0103 \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 m\u0103 feresc \u0219i cum s\u0103 m\u0103 protejez ca fat\u0103, ca femeie. Cum s\u0103 cunosc partea asta a b\u0103rbatului, cum s\u0103 abordez situa\u021bii de genul \u0103sta. Lucrurile astea le-am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat pe propria piele \u0219i te traumatizeaz\u0103 maxim.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Acum, se vindec\u0103 cu terapie \u0219i iubirea celor din jur. \u0218i speran\u021ba c\u0103 urm\u0103toarele genera\u021bii vor avea acces la mai multe informa\u021bii, \u00eenc\u0103 din \u0219coal\u0103.<\/p>\n

Iar ceea ce fac sau nu fac autorit\u0103\u021bile ar putea deveni un pansament pentru toate persoanele traficate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201ePoli\u021bia s\u0103 deschid\u0103 ochii \u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u00een a\u0219a fel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 vad\u0103 \u00een spatele persoanei care afi\u0219eaz\u0103 un simplu z\u00e2mbet sau spune c\u0103 nu este b\u0103tut\u0103, dar este v\u00e2n\u0103t\u0103 sau este pe marginea str\u0103zii \u0219i spune c\u0103 nu e traficat\u0103. \u0218i s\u0103 bage o educa\u021bie \u00een \u0219coli, pentru copii. Prin \u0219coal\u0103, copiii s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be cum s\u0103 se fereasc\u0103, indiferent c\u0103 e b\u0103iat, c\u0103 e fat\u0103. Nu este o ru\u0219ine s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi un copil cum s\u0103 se protejeze, cum s\u0103 se fereasc\u0103 de trafican\u021bi.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Acas\u0103, ea are deja lec\u021biile pe care vrea s\u0103 le dea mai departe copiilor ei: \u201e\u00cei voi feri pe c\u00e2t voi putea de ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 perioad\u0103 neagr\u0103 a vie\u021bii. Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 trafic, b\u0103t\u0103i, violen\u021b\u0103, \u00een\u0219el\u0103ciune; c\u0103 la munc\u0103, de b\u0103rbat, de prieteni. \u00cei voi \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba, at\u00e2t c\u00e2t pot, s\u0103 cunoasc\u0103 oamenii din jurul lor mai \u00eent\u00e2i \u0219i dup\u0103 aia s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 \u00eencrederea.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A descoperit \u0219i cum s\u0103-\u0219i lase<\/span> pata<\/span><\/i> s\u0103 se estompeze \u00een timpul ei. \u201eAccept\u00e2nd c\u0103 ai fost acolo. La un moment dat, nu ai cum s\u0103 schimbi. Cu c\u00e2t \u00eenve\u021bi s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti despre ea, o accep\u021bi mai u\u0219or. \u00cencet, \u00eencet \u00eencepe s\u0103 se \u0219tearg\u0103 singur\u0103.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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*Laura e un pseudonim pe care \u00eel folosim pentru a-i proteja identitatea.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Articol ap\u0103rut \u00een revista DoR#44<\/a><\/p>\n

[\/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space empty_h=”2″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=”0″ override_padding=”yes” h_padding=”2″ top_padding=”0″ bottom_padding=”5″ overlay_color=”color-gyho” overlay_alpha=”90″ gutter_size=”3″ shift_y=”0″ row_name=”TEXT”][vc_column column_width_percent=”65″ overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ medium_width=”0″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ z_index=”0″ width=”1\/1″][vc_empty_space empty_h=”2″][vc_column_text]\u201cFragmente\u201d \u00eembin\u0103 fotografia, colajul\u00a0\u0219i\u00a0interviul pentru a documenta pove\u0219tile personale ale unor oameni care au trecut prin experien\u021be traumatice.<\/p>\n

\u00cen proiect, persoanele intervievate \u0219i fotografiate realizeaz\u0103 un colaj\u00a0\u00een care\u00a0\u00ee\u0219i\u00a0schi\u021beaz\u0103 vizual\u00a0identitatea reconstruit\u0103 dup\u0103 traum\u0103.<\/p>\n

concept \u0219i realizare de Andrada L\u0103utaru \/ Bogdan Dinc\u0103<\/p>\n

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