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ERAU \u0218I EI TINERI<\/span><\/h2>\n
fotografii \u0219i interviu de Andrei Pungovschi<\/span><\/h5>\n

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Dac\u0103 ai sta de vorb\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u021bii\u00a0t\u0103i tineri, ce ai schimba la cum te-au crescut?<\/em><\/p>\n

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Marius, 43 de ani, asistent medical. Bucure\u0219ti, ianuarie 2019.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

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\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, le-a\u0219 spune s\u0103 se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 un pic \u00eenainte de a face copii. Pentru c\u0103 pe mine mama m-a f\u0103cut la 18 ani. C\u00e2nd m-a n\u0103scut pe mine avea 18 ani. 18 ani. Suntem patru fra\u021bi \u0219i ne-a n\u0103scut unul dup\u0103 altul. Cu alte cuvinte, ea la 22 de ani avea patru copii. Ce ai tu \u00een cap la 22 ani? Mai nimic, mai ales pe vremea aia. Tata mai mare cu trei ani dec\u00e2t mama, el avea 25 de ani \u0219i de asemenea, n-avea nimic \u00een cap. M-au f\u0103cut pe mine \u0219i s-a dus \u00een armat\u0103. Eu sunt cel mai mare. M\u0103 bucur tare c\u0103 suntem patru fra\u021bi, dar s\u0103 cre\u0219ti patru copii la 22 de ani, \u00eenchipuie-\u021bi cum e! <\/span><\/p>\n

Cum po\u021bi s\u0103 cre\u0219ti \u0219i s\u0103 educi patru copii la 22 de ani, c\u00e2nd tu nu \u0219tii nimic despre tine? Mai ales c\u0103, la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u, nici tu n-ai avut cine \u0219tie ce educa\u021bie. Bunica mea, mama lui mama, s-a desp\u0103r\u021bit de bunicul c\u00e2nd erau mama \u0219i fratele ei tineri. Practic ea a crescut doi copii singur\u0103. Bunica lui tata, de asemenea s-a desp\u0103r\u021bit de so\u021bul ei. Dou\u0103 femei care \u0219i-au crescut copiii singure. Ce educa\u021bie puteau s\u0103 le dea? Le-au dat o educa\u021bie a\u0219a bun\u0103, c\u0103 \u0103\u0219tia la 18 ani au f\u0103cut primul copil. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nu au reu\u0219it s\u0103 se descurce cu chestia asta \u0219i tata a c\u0103zut \u00een patima alcoolului. \u0218i asta foarte repede. De aici totul s-a rostogolit ca un bulg\u0103re de z\u0103pad\u0103. S-a dus dracu\u2019 totul. Practic el \u0219i-a abandonat familia pentru alcool. Eu nu-mi aduc aminte s\u0103 fi ie\u0219it vreodat\u0103 cu el \u00een parc. Sau s\u0103 fi mers vreodat\u0103 cu el undeva. Sau s\u0103 fi primit vreun sfat de la el. Cum face un tat\u0103 cu copilul lui: \u201dM\u0103i, tat\u0103, asta e bine, asta nu e bine.\u201d Eu tot ce-mi aduc aminte despre tata e c\u0103 era beat. At\u00e2t. \u0218i c\u0103 f\u0103cea scandal. \u0218i-mi mai aduc aminte c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd venea acas\u0103 cu ce-i mai r\u0103m\u00e2nea din salariu mama trebuia s\u0103-i ia banii din buzunar ca s\u0103 aib\u0103 s\u0103 ne cumpere ceva de m\u00e2ncare. Cum s\u0103 cre\u0219ti patru copii cu un salariu? Foarte greu. Ne-a ajutat bunica cu fratele lui mama. Dar a fost groaznic. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cred c\u0103 \u0103sta e motivul principal. C\u0103 ne-au f\u0103cut at\u00e2t de devreme. Am fost prea mul\u021bi, n-au reu\u0219it s\u0103 se descurce \u0219i s-a stricat totul \u00eentre ei. S-a stricat complet. El a luat-o pe patima alcoolului \u0219i de acolo c\u00e2nd aveam eu 18 ani au divor\u021bat. Dar deja era r\u0103ul f\u0103cut. R\u0103ul f\u0103cut \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 n-am primit absolut nicio educa\u021bie. Nimic. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eu dac\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ceva, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat din c\u0103r\u021bi. Aveam o vecin\u0103 care m\u0103 trimitea s\u0103-i fac pia\u021ba \u0219i drept recompens\u0103 \u00eemi d\u0103dea o carte s\u0103 citesc. Avea o camer\u0103 plin\u0103 cu c\u0103r\u021bi. Pe to\u021bi pere\u021bii erau doar c\u0103r\u021bi. Pentru mine c\u0103r\u021bile erau lumea \u00een care am evadat. Era alt\u0103 lume, era o lume frumoas\u0103. Puteam s\u0103 citesc ce voiam eu. \u0218i s\u0103 fiu Winnetou \u0219i s\u0103 fiu Agatha Christie \u0219i s\u0103 fiu cine voiam eu. \u0218i asta am f\u0103cut practic \u00een copil\u0103rie, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103, c\u00e2nd a venit Revolu\u021bia \u0219i-am \u00eenceput s\u0103 descop\u0103r alte chestii. Eu p\u00e2n\u0103 la pai\u0219pe ani asta am f\u0103cut. De acolo mi-am luat educa\u021bia, practic. \u00cen dormitorul \u00een care eram noi, copiii, erau dou\u0103 paturi. \u00centr-unul dormeau b\u0103ie\u021bii \u0219i \u00eentr-unul fetele. Citeam cu lanterna sub plapum\u0103 noaptea. C\u00e2nd nu mai aveam baterii \u00eemi mai d\u0103dea vecina bani s\u0103-mi cump\u0103r. M\u00e2ncam pe p\u00e2ine c\u0103r\u021bile. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pe mine nu m-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat tata s\u0103 merg pe biciclet\u0103. Eu n-am avut biciclet\u0103. Eu n-am fost la mare sau la munte, p\u00e2n\u0103 am plecat pe banii mei. Niciodat\u0103. Nici eu, nici fra\u021bii mei. Niciunul dintre ei. Nu aveau cum s\u0103-\u0219i permit\u0103 s\u0103 mearg\u0103 cu noi \u00een excursie sau concediu. \u00cen vacan\u021ba de var\u0103, b\u0103team mingea \u00een spatele blocului. ie\u0219eam diminea\u021ba \u0219i mai veneam s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc seara. Eram mul\u021bi copii \u00een bloc. Ie\u0219eam \u0219i ne jucam.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tata a fost absent complet. Bine, cred c\u0103 dac\u0103 ar fi fost absent total era mai bine. Dac\u0103 nu era deloc m\u0103car aveam lini\u0219te. N-am avut nici lini\u0219te pentru c\u0103, beat fiind, f\u0103cea scandaluri. Un singur lucru n-a f\u0103cut, nu ne-a b\u0103tut. Dar teroarea psihic\u0103 uneori poate s\u0103 doar\u0103 mai tare dec\u00e2t cea fizic\u0103. \u0218i las\u0103 urme. \u0218i \u0219tiu c\u0103 a l\u0103sat urme. <\/span><\/p>\n

Am momente \u00een care \u00eemi ies din fire \u0219i nu mai g\u00e2ndesc limpede. Se rostogole\u0219te totul a\u0219a p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd reu\u0219esc s\u0103 m\u0103 calmez \u0219i s\u0103 realizez c\u0103 nu e bine ce fac. \u00cemi pierd luciditatea. M\u0103 enervez foarte repede, foarte tare. E ca un bulg\u0103re a\u0219a care se rostogole\u0219te \u0219i dup\u0103 aia \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 nu e ok \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 opresc. Foarte greu am reu\u0219it s\u0103 controlez chestia asta \u0219i s\u0103 realizez c\u0103 e o chestie \u00een primul r\u00e2nd. Abia acum la maturitate am reu\u0219it. Eu n-am dat niciodat\u0103 \u00een copiii mei. \u0218i-am m\u00e2ncat b\u0103taie de la mama nem\u0103surat\u0103. Era singura ei metod\u0103 de a ne educa, pentru c\u0103 altceva nu \u0219tia. Nu \u00eenve\u021bi bine la \u0219coal\u0103? B\u0103taie. Nu ai fost cuminte? B\u0103taie. L-am b\u0103tut tu p-\u0103la? B\u0103taie. C\u00e2t putea ea s\u0103 ne bat\u0103. Cu o nuia, cu o curea, nu b\u0103t\u0103i din alea crunte. Dar ideea \u00een sine, de corec\u021bie fizic\u0103. Eu n-am dat niciodat\u0103 \u00een copiii mei, dar m\u0103 g\u0103sesc c\u00e2teodat\u0103 \u00een situa\u021bia de a-mi pierde cump\u0103tul. \u0218i parc\u0103 i-a\u0219 da o palm\u0103 la fund. M\u0103 controlez, pur \u0219i simplu. \u00cemi aduc aminte c\u0103 nu e ok. C\u0103 eu nu vreau s\u0103 fiu cum au fost ei. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nu l-am b\u0103tut niciodat\u0103 pe fi-miu. Pentru el b\u0103taia \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103-l iau \u0219i-l g\u00e2dil. \u0218i dac\u0103-i zic fiului meu \u00een glum\u0103 \u201dM\u0103, \u00ee\u021bi dau b\u0103taie!\u201d el se bucur\u0103 \u0219i zice \u201dDa, d\u0103-mi b\u0103taie!\u201d \u0218i m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 dac\u0103 zic chestia asta cu el vreodat\u0103 \u00een public, o s\u0103 se uite lumea ciudat la noi. C\u0103 pentru el b\u0103taia asta \u00eenseamn\u0103, g\u00e2dilat.<\/span><\/p>\n

Am considerat \u00eentotdeauna c\u0103 a\u0219 fi putut s\u0103 fac mult mai mult \u00een via\u021b\u0103, dac\u0103 a\u0219 fi avut doi p\u0103rin\u021bi care s\u0103 m\u0103 sus\u021bin\u0103. Eu m-am angajat prima dat\u0103 la 17 ani c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103 aduc bani \u00een cas\u0103. Eram \u00eenc\u0103 la liceu. Cert e c\u0103 m-am angajat de t\u00e2n\u0103r \u0219i am muncit \u0219i muncit. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sunt fericit acum. Am o so\u021bie minunat\u0103, doi copii extraordinari. Fra\u021bii mei sunt ok cu to\u021bii. \u0218i eu m\u0103 mir c\u00e2teodat\u0103 c\u00e2t de bine am ajuns \u021bin\u00e2nd cont de condi\u021biile \u00een care am crescut. La 15-16 ani, imediat dup\u0103 Revolu\u021bie, am avut ocazia s\u0103 fur, s\u0103 t\u00e2lh\u0103resc, s\u0103 v\u00e2nd droguri. Orice po\u021bi s\u0103-\u021bi \u00eenchipui. Am fost sc\u0103pat din m\u00e2n\u0103 complet. Plecam la discotec\u0103 seara \u0219i m\u0103 mai \u00eentorceam a doua zi diminea\u021ba. Cred c\u0103 de fric\u0103 n-am f\u0103cut nimic. Habar n-am. <\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 nici tata nu e vinovat. Eu nu mai vorbesc cu el de mul\u021bi ani. El s-a rec\u0103s\u0103torit \u0219i tot pe aici prin zon\u0103 st\u0103. \u00cel mai v\u0103d c\u00e2teodat\u0103 pe strad\u0103. E \u00een continuare la fel de ata\u0219at de alcool ca \u00eentotdeauna. At\u00e2t a putut s\u0103 fac\u0103. N-a putut mai mult. Nu puteam s\u0103-i cer altceva. Mama acum e l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi, al\u0103turi de noi. Vine, ne vizit\u0103m. Avem o rela\u021bie foarte bun\u0103 cu mama to\u021bi patru. \u00cens\u0103 cu tata nu mai vorbe\u0219te nimeni. Deloc. \u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 e o boal\u0103, dar nici nu cred c\u0103 e de datoria mea s\u0103-l vindec de chestia asta. Adic\u0103 mi-a f\u0103cut destul r\u0103u \u00een via\u021b\u0103, acum s\u0103 m\u0103 lase s\u0103-mi duc eu zilele a\u0219a cum consider eu de cuviin\u021b\u0103. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 dori\u021bi s\u0103 participa\u021bi la acest proiect,\u00a0scrie\u021bi un email la adresa andrei.pungovschi@gmail.com<\/a><\/span><\/h3>\n

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Andrei Pungovschi<\/strong> este fotojurnalist freelancer. \u00cen 2006 a petrecut un an la University of Missouri, unde a studiat fotojurnalism.\u00a0Din 2007 este fotograf colaborator al agen\u021biei France Presse \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Este parte a echipei Dec\u00e2t O Revist\u0103 de la \u00eenceputul publica\u021biei, \u00een calitate de fotograf \u0219i editor foto.<\/p>\n

Imaginile sale au ap\u0103rut \u00een diverse publica\u021bii str\u0103ine, printre care The New York Times, The Guardian, S\u00fcddeutsche Zeitung, Esquire Romania, The Associated Press.\u00a0<\/span>Din 2007, a predat c\u00e2\u021biva ani fotojurnalism, sub forma unor cursuri la Centrul pentru Jurnalism Independent \u0219i Dec\u00e2t O Revist\u0103, sau a unor workshop-uri. <\/span>\u00cen 2011, a fost c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103torul unei burse de la Funda\u021bia Rosalynn Carter, \u00een urma c\u0103reia a realizat un proiect despre costurile sociale ale anxiet\u0103\u021bii.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fotografiile sale au fost premiate la concursuri interna\u021bionale, printre care Pictures of The Year International, National Press Photographers Association, The Missouri Press Association, \u00een SUA, BursaPhotoFest \u00een Turcia.<\/span><\/p>\n

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