{"id":45397,"date":"2018-04-15T07:16:26","date_gmt":"2018-04-15T07:16:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.documentaria.ro\/content\/?p=45397"},"modified":"2019-03-26T11:07:30","modified_gmt":"2019-03-26T11:07:30","slug":"erau-si-ei-tineri-5-documentaria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.documentaria.ro\/content\/archives\/45397","title":{"rendered":"ERAU \u0218I EI TINERI 5 \/ DOCUMENTARIA"},"content":{"rendered":"

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ERAU \u0218I EI TINERI<\/span><\/h2>\n
fotografii \u0219i interviu de Andrei Pungovschi<\/span><\/h5>\n

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Dac\u0103 ai sta de vorb\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u021bii\u00a0t\u0103i tineri, ce ai schimba la cum te-au crescut?<\/em><\/p>\n

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Ioana, 33 de ani, jurnalist. Bucure\u0219ti, aprilie 2018.<\/span><\/h3>\n

Maic\u0103-mea era o combina\u021bie din asta fatal\u0103 de \u201cacum te pup, acum te scuip\u201d. \u021ain minte c\u0103 avea zile de weekend \u00een care dup\u0103 ce muncea toat\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na ca o isteric\u0103, s\u00e2mb\u0103ta sp\u0103la de m\u00e2n\u0103, g\u0103tea vreo \u0219ase ore \u0219i \u00een tot acest timp urla \u00eencontinuu \u0219i \u00eenjura \u0219i ne f\u0103cea pe to\u021bi \u00een toate felurile, dar nu ne l\u0103sa s-o ajut\u0103m. Dup\u0103 care seara, epuizat\u0103, se b\u0103ga \u00een pat \u0219i cerea afec\u021biune. Toat\u0103 lumea era megaterifiat\u0103, \u00een frunte cu mine.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Taic\u0103-meu a fost crescut de un tiran. Bunic\u0103-miu, care era ucrainian, a fost refugiat de r\u0103zboi, un tip super dur \u0219i autoritar, drept pentru care tata nu \u0219tie s\u0103 exprime nici s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 niciun fel de afec\u021biune. El era \u0219i cel \u00eens\u0103rcinat cu a m\u0103 bate. De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd f\u0103ceam o t\u00e2mpenie, se \u00eent\u00e2mpla asta. P\u00e2n\u0103 la 14 ani, c\u00e2nd la ultima b\u0103taie, a zis ceva de genul: \u201cTu \u0219tii c\u0103 mie nu-mi place \u0219i nu mi-a pl\u0103cut niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 fac asta\u201d. M-am g\u00e2ndit: \u201cTotu\u0219i e\u0219ti adult, adic\u0103 dac\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 faci o chestie, de ce-o faci? Stop!\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ca atare, dac\u0103 ar putea, s\u0103 fie un pic mai coeren\u021bi cu ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i \u0219i mai stabili emo\u021bional. Le-a\u0219 zice o chestie pe care am \u00een\u021beles-o \u0219i-am reu\u0219it s-o accept de la tipa la care merg la terapie de trei ani, c\u0103 ei m-au crescut, evident f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vrea, \u00eentr-un mediu complet instabil emo\u021bional. O s\u0103 pun \u00eentotdeauna disclaimerul \u0103sta. Chiar au f\u0103cut ce-au \u0219tiut mai bine \u0219i cred c\u0103 n-aveau cum s\u0103 fac\u0103 altceva de\u0219i realitatea e c\u0103 am fost un copil abuzat. Asta e. Dar nu pot s\u0103 spun asta f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 spun c\u0103 nu-i condamn \u0219i c\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg cum s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat. Simt \u00een continuare nevoia s\u0103-i ap\u0103r.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Maic\u0103-mea a fost toat\u0103 via\u021ba pe discursul de \u201cnu \u021bi-am cerut s\u0103 faci performan\u021b\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103, e foarte bine c-o faci, dar o faci pentru tine, nu pentru mine\u201d. \u00cen\u021beleg ce vroia s\u0103 zic\u0103, dar eram super ahtiat\u0103 s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u0103 fac lucruri bune. De\u0219i ei \u00eemi ziceau textual c\u0103 nu-i a\u0219a, am sim\u021bit \u00eentotdeauna c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 demonstrez ceva, c\u0103 m\u0103 bag\u0103 \u00een seam\u0103 doar atunci c\u00e2nd fac t\u00e2mpenii. Ceea ce nu prea f\u0103ceam, eram ultima tocilar\u0103 \u0219i un copil introvertit \u0219i megacuminte. Nici faptul c\u0103 luam note mari nu-i bucura \u00een mod special. Chestie pe care am continuat s-o fac ca s\u0103 primesc \u0219i apreciere pozitiv\u0103.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Cumva e interesant c\u0103 ai mei sunt am\u00e2ndoi \u0219i singuri la p\u0103rin\u021bi, ca \u0219i mine, \u0219i copiii unor personaje extrem de autoritare \u0219i asta s-a tradus diferit. Pe tata l-a blocat foarte tare \u0219i l-a f\u0103cut foarte anxios \u0219i \u00eenchis. Iar pe maic\u0103-mea a f\u0103cut-o la r\u00e2ndul ei tiranic\u0103 \u0219i extrem de imprevizibil\u0103. Cu toate astea, ei sunt c\u0103s\u0103tori\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103-n ziua de azi \u0219i au o rela\u021bie perfect func\u021bional\u0103. Asta a fost interesant \u0219i greu de dus. Ei niciodat\u0103 nu s-au contrazis \u00een stilul lor de a m\u0103 cre\u0219te cred c\u0103 i-am auzit cert\u00e2ndu-se de trei ori \u00een toat\u0103 via\u021ba. \u00cen continuare \u00ee\u0219i completeaz\u0103 propozi\u021biile. Au grij\u0103 foarte bine unul de altul \u00een disfunc\u021bionalitatea lor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Un efect \u00een via\u021ba de adult e c\u0103 am o stim\u0103 de sine foarte sc\u0103zut\u0103, care s-a tradus de-a lungul timpului \u00een varii forme, culmin\u00e2nd cu lunga mea anorexie. Ca s\u0103 fie tac\u00e2mul complet, din p\u0103cate s-a tradus \u0219i \u00een rela\u021bii care au ajuns s\u0103 fie abuzive \u00een diverse feluri.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

La cel mai meschin nivel, un alt efect sunt \u0219i cei patru ani de terapie, unde dau bani s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nal. Care-mi face foarte mult bine. Am o super terapeut\u0103 de la care simt \u00een continuare c\u0103 am ce s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b. Am ajuns cu ea la o concluzie care mi se pare super valoroas\u0103, c\u0103 majoritatea lucrurilor pe care le fac, care sunt autodistructive – nem\u00e2ncat, b\u0103ut mult, muncit excesiv etc. – vine dintr-un soi de credin\u021b\u0103 foarte veche a mea care e o interdic\u021bie. N-am voie s\u0103 exist. Cu asta am crescut eu \u00een cap, cu g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 incomodez, c\u0103 n-ar trebui s\u0103 deranjez, c\u0103 ar trebuie s\u0103 fiu foarte cuminte \u0219i s\u0103 fac totul foarte, foarte bine \u00een speran\u021ba c\u0103 n-o s\u0103 m\u0103 bat\u0103, o s\u0103 m\u0103 iubeasc\u0103, \u0219i-o s\u0103 fie bine. Dar pentru asta trebuia s\u0103 ocup c\u00e2t mai pu\u021bin spa\u021biu \u0219i s\u0103 fiu c\u00e2t mai pu\u021bin problematic\u0103. \u00cen timp, \u00eentr-un adult, genul \u0103sta de interdic\u021bie ajunge s\u0103 se traduc\u0103 \u00een comportamente de autodistrugere.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

De\u0219i am contribuit o bun\u0103 bucat\u0103 din via\u021ba mea de adult la cre\u0219terea unui copil \u0219i a fost o experien\u021b\u0103 absolut fabuloas\u0103, tot felul \u00een care am fost crescut\u0103 m\u0103 face s\u0103 am \u00eendoieli foarte mari c\u0103 a\u0219 putea s\u0103 fac asta \u0219i s\u0103 nu dau mai departe toat\u0103 violen\u021ba. N-am avut episoade violente \u00een rela\u021bia cu ea, dar cred c\u0103 am sim\u021bit uneori ce sim\u021bea maic\u0103-mea \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 urle. \u0218i nu e ok. N-am \u00eencredere \u00een mine c\u0103 a\u0219 putea s\u0103 fac asta \u0219i s\u0103 nu fut meciul grav de tot. Mi-e team\u0103 pentru c\u0103 am fost expus\u0103 \u00een repetate r\u00e2nduri la violen\u021b\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103 \u0219i m-am v\u0103zut pe mine \u00een diverse situa\u021bii av\u00e2nd acelea\u0219i reac\u021bii ca ale p\u0103rin\u021bilor mei. Am respins afec\u021biune, am plecat de nebun\u0103 de acas\u0103, am urlat, am f\u0103cut ca to\u021bi dracii, exclusiv fa\u021b\u0103 de persoanele care-mi erau cel mai apropiate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Am stat de vorb\u0103 cu maic\u0103-mea \u00een iarn\u0103. Casa asta era un dezastru, era efectiv o cas\u0103 de oameni bolnavi, nu mai sp\u0103lasem vase de luni de zile, rufe, pe motiv de depresie. Trecusem printr-o desp\u0103r\u021bire foarte lung\u0103 \u0219i foarte complicat\u0103. \u00cen perioada aia, amestecam blan\u0103 alcoolul cu antidepresivele \u0219i fugeam de acas\u0103 \u00een fiecare noapte. A venit maic\u0103-mea aici, practic a intrat cu for\u021ba peste mine. Era foarte speriat\u0103. M-a ajutat s\u0103 facem curat \u0219i \u00een timpul \u0103la am povestit, de b\u0103t\u0103i, certuri, tot ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u00een familie. Plecam de Cr\u0103ciun la o prieten\u0103 despre care i-am spus a\u0219a, en passant, c\u0103 e gay. Maic\u0103-mea se \u00eentoarce la mine \u0219i zice: \u201cAh, \u00eentr-o vreme credeam c\u0103 \u0219i tu e\u0219ti.\u201d \u0218i eu zic: \u201cP\u0103i, \u00eentr-o vreme chiar eram.\u201d Zice: \u201cAh, \u0219i-acum \u00ee\u021bi plac b\u0103rba\u021bii.\u201d Eu zic: \u201c\u00cemi plac \u0219i, \u0219i.\u201d St\u0103 ea a\u0219a un pic, se g\u00e2nde\u0219te \u0219i zice: \u201cTu practic te \u00eendr\u0103goste\u0219ti a\u0219a, de oameni, nu conteaz\u0103 dac\u0103-s b\u0103rba\u021bi sau femei.\u201d \u0102la a fost momentul fiec\u0103reia de curaj \u00een care am zis s\u0103 d\u0103m toate c\u0103r\u021bile pe fa\u021b\u0103. Hai s-o d\u0103m \u0219i pe asta! \u0218i a fost foarte, foarte bine. Dac\u0103 mama mea, contabil\u0103 pensionar\u0103 de \u0219aizeci de ani, destul de habotnic\u0103, poate s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 chestia asta, cred c\u0103 exist\u0103 speran\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 dori\u021bi s\u0103 participa\u021bi la acest proiect,\u00a0scrie\u021bi un email la adresa andrei.pungovschi@gmail.com<\/a><\/span><\/h3>\n

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DESPRE AUTOR<\/span><\/h1>\n

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Andrei Pungovschi<\/strong> este fotojurnalist freelancer. \u00cen 2006 a petrecut un an la University of Missouri, unde a studiat fotojurnalism.\u00a0Din 2007 este fotograf colaborator al agen\u021biei France Presse \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Este parte a echipei Dec\u00e2t O Revist\u0103 de la \u00eenceputul publica\u021biei, \u00een calitate de fotograf \u0219i editor foto.<\/p>\n

Imaginile sale au ap\u0103rut \u00een diverse publica\u021bii str\u0103ine, printre care The New York Times, The Guardian, S\u00fcddeutsche Zeitung, Esquire Romania, The Associated Press.\u00a0<\/span>Din 2007, a predat c\u00e2\u021biva ani fotojurnalism, sub forma unor cursuri la Centrul pentru Jurnalism Independent \u0219i Dec\u00e2t O Revist\u0103, sau a unor workshop-uri. <\/span>\u00cen 2011, a fost c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103torul unei burse de la Funda\u021bia Rosalynn Carter, \u00een urma c\u0103reia a realizat un proiect despre costurile sociale ale anxiet\u0103\u021bii.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fotografiile sale au fost premiate la concursuri interna\u021bionale, printre care Pictures of The Year International, National Press Photographers Association, The Missouri Press Association, \u00een SUA, BursaPhotoFest \u00een Turcia.<\/span><\/p>\n

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